Social Isolation and Loneliness

Loneliness is also a common emotion and it is likely that, at some point in our lives and whatever our age, we will experience it. Various studies estimating the levels of loneliness in Great Britain show that 5 – 16% of people aged 65 or over report feeling lonely all or most of the time and up to a further 30% say they feel lonely “sometimes”.  Loneliness and social isolation are harmful to our health: research shows that lacking social connections is as damaging to our health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day (Holt-Lunstad, 2015).

Risk factors that increase the likelihood of someone experiencing loneliness. These included living in rural environments with poor transport connections, having a lack of family nearby, having a caring responsibility, living on a low income, bereavement, poor mobility, losing hearing and/or sight, and having certain long-term conditions (such as dementia), as well as a range of other possible characteristics, situations, or experiences. Sometimes, a person experiences multiple risk factors simultaneously.

Source – Campaign to End Loneliness

Very Brief Intervention

Ask

How often would you say you take part in hobbies or social activities?

Do you have any particular hobbies or outside interests that you enjoy doing?

Do you have a network of friendships and relationships?

  • Is this via telephone contact, social media or in person etc

Would you feel comfortable asking for help at any time from friends of family?

Would you say that your relationships are as you would want them to be?

  • Facilitate a conversation about loneliness, using the skills and qualities of empathy, openness, warmth and respect, and help people to understand their own circumstances and plan their own solutions.
  • Allow the person to tell their story, to review their loneliness and what is happening now.

Assist

What would you like to be doing differently, and how would that make your feel?

Can I give you some information to help support the opportunities we discussed?

Would these things make a difference to you?

  • The goals should be the individual’s
  • Help the person identify the incentives in tackling their loneliness: what benefits will accrue for the person? Are there factors that make change necessary?

Act

Self Care

Although most people need some kind of social contact to maintain good mental health, everyone has different social needs. The person may be someone who is content with a few close friends, or they may need a large group of varied acquaintances to feel satisfied.

State that the simplest way to ease feelings of loneliness can be to try to meet more, or different, people. 

  • Can they think of anything they are interested in, a class or a group they have heard of, that could help connect them with new people? See Useful contacts for ideas of how to find groups
  • Volunteering is a good way of meeting people. Helping others can also really help improve mental health. See useful contacts for organisations that can help someone find local volunteering opportunities.

Loneliness in Men

Men's Sheds Association

Website:  https://menssheds.org.uk/ 

There are several established sheds across the patch, all very welcoming to those experiencing mental health difficulties or isolation. The provide great local asset based work and  opportunities for men of all ages to meet, talk and take part in varied group activities

Andy's Man Club

Provides a weekly talking group, a place for men to talk about issues/problems they have faced or are currently facing.

For information about how to connect with clubs please email info@andysmanclub.co.uk and the team will be able to assist.

Website: Andys Man Club | #ITSOKAYTOTALK |

Loneliness in Older People

  • The Silver Line is the only free confidential helpline providing information, friendship and advice to older people, open 24 hours a day, every day of the year.  Call 0800 470 8090.  The Silver Line can also put you in contact with community activities in your local area
  • Age UK has a befriending service to support loneliness in later life, this is where a volunteer visits an older person once a week in their own home.  There is also telephone befriending Telephone befriending, where a volunteer befriender will phone an older person.
  • NHS Choices has a range of advice on Loneliness including volunteering, continuing education and how to engage with social media and computers.

Loneliness in Younger People

  • It is recognised that Loneliness is not something that is exclusive to older adult, indeed many younger adults in particular can experience loneliness and a recent report from the office for national statistics highlighted Britain as the loneliness capital of Europe.  
  • Whilst on the outside young people can be very well connected on social media but if this replaces face-to-face contact then it can add to a feeling of loneliness.  Some people also present an idealised version of themselves online and we expect to have social lives like those portrayed in the media.
  • Helplines can reduce loneliness, at least in the short term
  • The Samaritans are available around the clock, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. This number is FREE to call on 116 123
  • Get Connected is a free confidential helpline for young people, where people can seek help with emotional and mental health issues often linked to loneliness.
  • It doesn’t really matter who you talk to first. Some ideas would include: a friend, family member, anonymous listening service like Nightline or the Samaritans, student union welfare rep, personal tutor, students support services staff member, counsellor, or doctor. Decide who is the best person for you to talk to first. Be realistic about what each person can offer. If it doesn’t work out, try someone else. Talk to more than one person.

Support Services - Children and Young People

Children and Young People can contact the 'The Mix which is a leading support service that can help young people to take on any challenge they are facing - from mental health to money, from homelessness to finding a job, from break-ups to drugs. 

Local Support and Contact Details